G is for Gentry, Arkansas


My great-uncle Albert Vining’s grade card revealed the dates that the Vining’s were in Gentry, Arkansas. He attended fifth grade at the Gentry School from September 7, 1908, to February 26, 1909. I’m not sure if school ended that early or if that is when the family left for Kansas. Prior to this time in Gentry, the Vining children were in school in 1906 in Woodward, Oklahoma. (source)

His teacher in Gentry was Alice Oakley. Albert’s final average was medium to good for reading, writing, spelling, arithmetic, and geography. For grammar, he received a failing grade.

albert vining grade card gentry arkansas

By December 1909, his younger sister, Ruth, was mentioned in the Tyro, Kansas, newspaper listing of students in the school Christmas play. By the 1910 census, they were living in Caney, Kansas.

Why the Dates Matter

My mother had a photo that was labeled “Gentry, Ark., Albert, Scelia, and Ruth.” These would be Nancy Jane Babcock Vining’s children. I’m trying to pin down the date of this picture.

Vining house in Gentry Ark

The Vining house in Gentry, Arkansas. Photo from Gail Lee Martin’s collection.

Gail Lee Martin’s notes: “Nancy Jane Vining left Oklahoma with Luther, Albert, and Ruth and lived a short time in Gentry, Arkansas, with or near her sister, Ellenor, who had married John Vining.   He died in 1908.

Ellen Vining 001

Nancy Babcock Ashlock Vining’s older sister Ellenor (Ellen) Babcock Vining, who married Henry Francis Vining’s brother John. The roof line for this house does not match the other picture.

In the Civil War pension records of John Vining, Nancy lists her residence as Gentry, Benton County, Arkansas. By the pension date 11 Dec. 1908, we assume it’s around this time.   Ruth, the youngest, would have been about 11 1/2 years old.   She looks older than that.”

I don’t know if the house was rented or owned by Ellenor Vining or Nancy Vining. Both were widowed.

Downtown – Gentry, Arkansas (photo courtesy of the Shiloh Museum of Ozark History)

Below is a photo of Ruth and Scelia in Tyro in 1911. Note that in this photo, Ruth is wearing a shorter dress suitable for a young girl of 14. Scelia is 19, so of an age to wear long skirts. In my mind, this picture looks like one that would have been taken on the occasion of Ruth’s 8th-grade graduation.

scelian and ruth vining 1911 edited by kristy duggan

This makes me wonder if the first picture above actually includes Ruth. Could that photo be Nancy Jane Vining, Albert, and his sister, Scelia? Albert would have been 15 in 1909 and his mother Nancy Jane would have been 58. To me, the women in the photo look younger than Nancy or Ellenor. Perhaps the occasion was the visit of another sister of Albert and Scelia (with neither Nancy Jane or Ruth in the picture).

Nancy and Ellenor’s brother, Elias Jahue Babcock and his wife Ida, and son Carl were living in Gentry in 1910 also. That opens up the possibility that the young women in the photo could be his grown daughters visiting their cousins and aunts at the Vining house. Would the photo of the Vining house have Nellie and Rosie standing by it?

carl, nellie, rosie, walter, baker babcock

Carl, Nellie, Rosie, (front) Walter, Baker Babcock siblings

Women’s History Month – The Laundress


I’ve found several widows on my family tree who listed “laundress” as their occupation in the census. One was my great-grandmother, Nancy Jane Vining. Her parents were Ellenor and Ezra Babcock and she was first married to Burr Ashlock. After his death, she married James Vining. They 13 children together to go with the 3 children from her first marriage.

Life wasn’t easy for them. Her oldest son, James Ashlock, died at age 9. The following year, their infant son, William, died before his first birthday. Just four years later, their daughter, Sarah, entered the insane asylum in her teens. You can read her story at What Happened to Sadie Vining?

James and Nancy Jane were married 24 years before he died of typhoid. Her youngest child, Ruth, was less than a year old. Two of the sons were old enough to help support the family after James’ death.

By 1910, most of the children were grown and married. Nancy Jane at age 59 still had 17-year-old Scelia, 16-year-old Albert, and 12-year old Ruth at home. The family lived in Tyro, Kansas, and Nancy Jane worked as a laundress.

The graphic below is a romanticized version of laundry day in the 1920s. Possibly in 1910, my great-grandmother was scrubbing clothes each day on a washboard in a wooden tub. Perhaps Albert helped by carrying buckets of water. Scelia was old enough to be a help too and perhaps even Ruth assisted.
1922 laundry graphic with childFri, Apr 7, 1922 – page 5 · The Morning News (Coffeyville, Kansas) · Newspapers.com

There is another possibility to go with this occupation. Henry Vining had a relative, Aaron Vining, who co-owned a commercial laundry in Neodesha. It’s possible that he employed the Widow Vining there. I’m unsure of the logistics involved for Nancy Jane to travel to Neodesha if she worked there.

A.L. Vining and Model Steam Laundry -

Neodesha Register
Neodesha, Kansas  08 Mar 1917, Thu  •  Page 1

Our 3rd cousin, Nancy Henning has a wonderful photo of Aaron and Carrie Vining’s laundry in 1912. I stare at the faces but can’t tell if Nancy is among them.

Laundry Days

Aaron & Carrie owned and ran a laundry business in Neodesha, KS – photo taken about 1912

I don’t have many photos of the Widow Vining. The one below was taken to send to her son Albert while he was over in France for World War I. Standing behind her are daughters, Lucy and Ruth. She was 67-years-old. None of the women in the photo of the laundry look old enough to be Nancy.

Lucy Vining Bolte, Mrs. Nancy J. Vining, and Ruth Vining 1918 sent to Albert in France

Lucy Vining Bolte, Mrs. Nancy J. Vining, and Ruth Vining

Women’s History Month: Ellenor Wright


We link into the Wright family through my 2nd great-grandmother born in Indiana in 1820. Ellenor Nancy Jane Wright. She married Ezra Babcock.


Penciled on the back of the photo: “(Babcock?)”, then “Ezra Nancy” and “Grandpa Grandma”


Ellenor Nancy Jane Wright was born on May 12, 1820, in Indiana, her father, Levi Wright, was 26, and her mother, Lydia Chapman, was 24. She married Ezra B Babcock on August 27, 1843, in Piatt, Illinois. They had 11 children in 18 years. She died on February 8, 1882, in Paola, Kansas, at the age of 61, and was buried in Oronogo, Missouri.

That’s a great distance and many generations away from Sussex, England and the location of the ancestral manor house. It is no longer in the Wright family as it sold years ago in 1771. John Wright is supposedly my 2nd cousin 11x removed, so quite unlikely that I’d be in line to inherit it anyway. 

wright family history

The book describes the Wright family as an industrious long-lived family. I like the part that says they were highly intelligent and studious. I’d like to think that some of these qualities have been passed down through the generations.

wright history

After searching further, I found another line for my tree that goes back to the same Wright family. It would seem that my parents must be 15th cousins or some such thing.

Geni - John Wright of Kelvedon Hall is related to Virginia Allain

Still lots to work on with these, to see if all the links make sense and are properly documented.

My Earliest Conclusion Was Wrong


I pulled out another mystery photo from my mother’s boxes. Across the bottom of the photo’s mat was written “Walter Baker”. Aha, I’d seen a Baker on my recent searches so I went in hot pursuit of this Walter Baker.  I found him, born in 1924. I set to work trying to find out more about this 3rd cousin. Frustrated by his parents’ early divorce, the multiple marriages of his mother, and a lack of siblings, I took a closer look at the picture.

It looked like it was from an earlier era, which wouldn’t work for someone born in 1924. There was a photography studio name on the mat but it wasn’t any help to determine the location as the decorative border obscured part of it.

carl, nellie, rosie, walter, baker babcock

The name was penciled on the dark background, so I scanned the photo and brightened it up. To my surprise, I discovered more names on the mat and they seemed to align with the people above and below them. It wasn’t Walter Baker at all, but separate males named Walter and Baker. The back row showed a young boy named Carl and two women named Nellie and Rosie. My first conclusion was totally off-track.

Now the hunt was to find a family on my tree with siblings or cousins that included those five names. Keep in mind that there are over 9,000 people on my tree, so I was prepared for this to be a prolonged search. I started sorting through the 8 people who had Baker as a first, middle, or last name. Checking their dates, then their siblings, narrowed it down to a likely fellow. BINGO, his siblings matched the names on the photo.

The People in the Photo

  • Albert Baker Babcock, born 12 Dec 1878 in Seneca, Newton, Missouri and died 18 Feb 1941.
  • Walter Leroy Babcock, born 26 Nov 1882 in Seneca, Missouri and died 7 Jan 1943 in Fremont, Colorado.
  • Carl Lowell Babcock, born 26 Jan 1897 in Stroud, Lincoln, Oklahoma and died 23 Sep 1963 in Watsonville, Santa Cruz, California
  • Nellie May Babcock, born 12 Jan 1888 in Missouri and died 1963.
  • Rosa Babcock, born about 1877 in Kansas and died 3 Sep 1960 in Watonga, Blaine County, Oklahoma.

I’d researched another photo a while ago that had Carl Babcock in it with his parents. At that time, I didn’t pay much attention to his siblings. Here’s the Babcock’s story.

Elias, Carl, Ida Babcock

Elias, Carl and Ida Babcock (photo from the collection of Gail Lee Martin)

I love the feeling of accomplishment from sleuthing out these names so I can put this photo online with the blog and with Ancestry for other relatives to find. It’s saved now from anyone just tossing it out because they don’t know who the people are and don’t care.

Somewhere, someday, a descendant of one of these Babcocks will search and find this photo. I can imagine their thrill to have their great-great-grandmother or grandfather’s picture.

I is for Ion or Is It Jon?


Name Confusion

I was researching some Babcock names for the family tree and there was some confusion about an Ione and a Jon in one family. On some of the trees, the girl was called Ion, Iona, Ioan, on others Joan, and I also saw Jon.

Margaret Ione Babcock Forrester from Theresa Huberty

My thanks to Theresa Huberty for this wonderful photo of Margaret Ione Babcock Forrester.

Looking at the birth dates, it was pretty apparent these were all the same person and not twins. Looking at the census helped me get straight.

The photo below shows the 1900 census with the child’s name transcribed as Jon by the transcriber. I looked closely and could see why they thought the first letter was a “J.” I still wasn’t satisfied, so I looked at all the other J names on that page like Jack and John.
I found some capital “I” names as well with Indiana and Illinois. By comparing those, it was quite clear that the original census taker had written Ion, not Jon. His J’s have an extra squiggle at the top that isn’t there on the capital I’s.

I took this screenshot to show how I came to my conclusions and posted it on Ancestry. com to help out others working on the Babcock family history. There goes another hour of genealogy research just to figure out this one name.


Comparing capital J and capital I to determine the real name of Ione Babcock.

Ione Babcock is my 3rd cousin one time removed. Here’s how that links from her to me:
Margaret Ione Babcock (1898 – 1980)
3rd cousin 1x removed
Nicholas Hall Babcock (1869 – 1941)
Father of Margaret Ione Babcock
William Henry Babcock (1846 – 1916)
Father of Nicholas Hall Babcock
Elias R. Babcock (1817 – 1880)
Father of William Henry Babcock
Joseph M Babcock (1786 – 1827)
Father of Elias R. Babcock
Ezra B Babcock (1821 – 1886)
Son of Joseph M Babcock
Nancy Jane Babcock (1851 – 1924)
Daughter of Ezra B Babcock
Ruth Vining (1897 – 1960)
Daughter of Nancy Jane Babcock
Gail Lee MCGHEE (1924 – 2013)
Daughter of Ruth Vining
Then there is ME

E Is For Elias Babcock


I have a batch of Elias Babcocks on our family tree. Let’s sort them out.

Babcock, Elias R

Born 4 Sep 1817 – Edwards County, Illinois, USA and died 26 Feb 1880 – Chetopa, Wilson, Kansas, USA. This Elias is my 3rd great-uncle.

elias babcock civil war soldier from jatpainter1

Elias Babcock, Civil War soldier from jatpainter1 on Ancestry.

His mother was Mary “Polly” Bixby, age 18, and his father, Joseph M Babcock, age 31. Elias Babcock married Laura Keziah Hall in Monticello, Illinois, on July 17, 1842, when he was 24 years old. They had nine children in 25 years. During the Civil War, he fought for the Union in Company K of the 1st Illinois Light Artillery and later in 7th Illinois Battery.

He returned to farming after the war and moved west to Missouri, then to Kansas. On Oct. 15, 1866, he applied to homestead on South Chetopa Creek on Osage Indian Land, which then became Wilson County, Kansas and he is considered the first settler there. That’s the same area where the Ingalls family settled for a short time. Laura Ingalls Wilder wrote about segment of her life in the book Little House on the Prairie. I should read that again to gain insight into Elias and Laura Babcock’s pioneer experience.

He died in his sixties from a disease contracted while in the army.


Babcock, Elias Jahue – born 18 Nov 1856 – Iowa, USA and died 05 Mar 1933 – Gentry, Benton, Arkansas, USA. This is my 2nd great-uncle, a younger brother of my great-grandmother, Nancy Jane (Babcock) Vining. You can read more about him in my earlier post about him.

Babcock, Elias B was born 29 Jan 1870 – Wilson County, Kansas, USA and died at age eight on 8 Sept 1878. He was my second cousin, 2x removed. His mother was Francis Lyer (Lois) Harris, age 21, and father was William Henry Babcock, age 23.

Babcock, Elias – Born 4 Jul 1888 – Wilson, Kansas, USA and died 9 May 1976 – Eureka, Greenwood, Kansas, USA. This Elias is the grandson of the first Elias on our list. His parents were Ezra Hall Babcock and Olive Ellen Dixon. This is another second cousin, 2x removed.

We’ll leave the batch of Ezra Babcocks for another time. I sure wish the Babcock family had used more unique names instead of recycling the same ones over and over.

At the Courthouse – Ashlock/Babcock Marriage


I’m carrying on my mother and grandmother’s work on our family history. In their time, working on genealogy meant trips to courthouses and cemeteries. If those were too far away, Mom sent a letter. It must have been an excruciating wait for that bit of information that might move the family line forward.

Here’s an example:

It seems that she already has the dates, location, and names, so I’m not sure what further information she felt might show up in the marriage application. Of course, it would be pretty nifty to see your ancestor’s signature.

Sadly, the requested document was not to arrive.

The record keeper in Gentry County, Missouri responded with a short two sentence reply that was thriftily typed at the bottom of Mom’s handwritten letter. “We are unable to help you on the above request. The Courthouse in Gentry County, Missouri, burned in the year of 1885, destroying all records prior to 1885.”

How disappointing. I checked on Ancestry to see if somehow a copy of the marriage papers might miraculously have been saved and now online. Nope, the ashes are long blown away in the Missouri winds and no record remains.

Now, Gentry County has an online site with the email address of the Recorder which saves the cost of a stamp and gets your query there much faster. To search their records online, you’ll need a credit card. Ten dollars buys a fifteen-minute search pass so have your questions well-thought out and ready to make the most of that time.

Here’s the new, since 1885, courthouse in Gentry County, Missouri.

Gentry County, Missouri courthouse (By Americasroof – Own work, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=11384783)

So, how did the marriage of Burr Ashlock and Nancy Jane Babcock turn out? The couple had three children:

Sarilda Jane Ashlock 1867–1951
James F. Ashlock 1869–1879
Isaac Alonzo “Ike” Ashlock 1872–1945

Less than a year after the birth of the youngest son, Burr Ashlock died on the 22 of September in 1973 in Johnson, Missouri. I couldn’t find any old newspapers to explain why he died at the age of 30.

Nancy Jane (Babcock) Ashlock remarried six months later in Wilson County, Kansas at the home of her parents, Ezra B Babcock (1821–1886) and Ellenor Nancy Jane Wright (1820–1882). The groom was Henry Francis Vining who had come to Kansas from East Windsor, Connecticut in the 1850s. It was not unusual to marry fairly quickly in those days with young children needing support.

(This post is part of the 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks blog challenge. Check back for future posts.)

Ezra Babcock’s Letter


The Vinings and Babcocks were plentiful in the Thayer area of Kansas around 1910 – 1920s. In searching old newspapers, I frequently find mentions of their socializing, marriages, mishaps, and deaths.

ezrah hall babcock from jatpainter1

Photo posted to Ancestry by JatPainter1 – Ezra Hall Babcock

One item caught my eye, a letter from Ezra Babcock from South Dakota that was published in The Thayer News (Thayer, Kansas) 21 Oct 1910, Fri • Page 1. Since he mentions his two sons by name, I could tell it was Ezra Hall Babcock, my first cousin, 3x removed. Ezra was a name recycled among the Babcocks quite frequently.


A couple of weeks ago, the News sent out a number of cards to former Thayer people, asking for a letter from them for publication. Following is the first one received. Others are arriving and we hope to publish, one or two such each week for a while.

Sturgis, S. Dak. Oct 12, 1910.

To the Thayer News, 

I received your card and will endeavor to give you a brief sketch of South Dakota life and my experience since coming to this state. 

My two sons, Elias and Harvey and myself, filed on our homesteads in the fall of 1908, about twelve miles east of Sturgis and have been living on those claims since that time. Elias and I proved up on our claims the 21st of September 1910 by commuting and paying  $1.25 per acre for the land. We had to live on our claims constantly for fourteen months before proving up. Harvey will homestead his claim and will have to live on it for five years, but will get his land free.

All claims of any value are taken here. Anyone desiring claims would have to go out about 90 miles northeast of Sturgis. There is considerable good land but it is quite a distance from town. This has been a very dry year here and crops have been nearly a failure. Hay is very high, from $15 to $20 per ton, corn is $1.50 per hundred, oats are $1.85 per hundred, potatoes are $2.25 per hundred, eggs are 35 cents per dozen, butter is 35 to 40 cents per pound.

This is a great country for stock, and it does fine here. Horses are very plentiful and bring top prices. I have not seen a sick horse since I came here. Cattle are good prices and find ready sale. My son Harvey sold about two thousand dollars worth of cattle last fall and yesterday sold forty-two steers at thirty-seven dollars a head. There was thirty steers two years old and 12 three years old and fattened on grass. That makes a total of over $3500 for his cattle in the past year. He has around fifty head left to winter.

This climate is very healthy and a prosperous country, only the water is very poor in most places. 

Harvey has a fine spring on his ranch and good water.

I have been working part of this summer for the government at Fort Meade and some in Sturgis. Have also been appointed as supervisor of my district and have been working the roads quite a good deal. I have received three to five dollars a day for eight hours work but have made a flying trip to Deadwood, Lead City, and Rapid City. I find Deadwood to be a very lively mining town of about five thousand inhabitants. Lead City has a population of about ten thousand and the great Homestake mine is located there.

I expect to return to Kansas about the middle of Nov. and will be at my old home and can give all my friends a hearty handshake and tell them all about the country. Better than with my pen. 

I will bid you adieu, till we meet again, with best wishes to all enquiring friends. 

Sincerely yours,

Ezra Babcock


Ezra Babcock letter from S. Dakota

Letter of a South Dakota homesteader 1910

Ezra Babcock letter from S. Dakota Fri, Oct 21, 1910 – 1 · The Thayer News (Thayer, Kansas, United States of America) · Newspapers.com

Just the Facts – Ezra Hall Babcock

Ezra Hall Babcock was born August 31, 1853, in Monticello, Illinois. His father Elias Babcock was 35 and his mother, Laura Keziah Hall, was 28. Ezra married Olive Ellen Dixon on November 14, 1884, in Wilson, Kansas. They had four children in 15 years. He died on August 18, 1931, in Neodesha, Kansas, at the age of 77, and was buried in Wilson, Kansas.

  • Ezra Hall Babcock lived in Chetopa, Kansas, in 1870
  • His wife, Olive Ellen Dixon, had a sister Rachel Dixon who was married to his brother, Samuel Ouberry Babcock
  • Son J Harvey was born on January 6, 1877, in Thayer, Kansas
  • Daughter Rachel was born on August 28, 1885, in Wilson, Kansas
  • Son Elias was born on July 4, 1888, in Wilson, Kansas
  • Daughter Cynthia was born on November 5, 1892, in Chetopa, Kansas
  • In 1900, Ezra was living in Louisburg, Kansas
  • His wife, Olive Ellen died in 1906
  • In 1910, Ezra and 2 sons were homesteading near Sturgis, South Dakota
  • In 1920, Ezra was living in Chetopa, Kansas
  • In 1930, he was living in Thayer, Kansas
  • He died at age 77 on August 18, 1931, in Neodesha, Kansas
  • He is buried at Harrison Cemetery in Wilson County, Kansas

John Vining’s Daughter and Grandchildren


On the back of the photo in faint pencil, it says “Aunt Ellen Vining, Uncle Jack Vining, Cousin Ida, Cousin Lulu, etc.”

My first guess was that Ellen and Jack (seated in front) were the parents of two grown daughters, named Ida and Lulu (unknown married names). I also hypothesized that the unnamed 3 children were Ida and Lulu’s. I was wrong. 
Ellen & Jack Vining and Ida and Lulu

I couldn’t find anything about the photography studio. On the border of the photo, it says, “Munson – Neosho, MO.”

When I consulted my family tree, there was no Jack Vining and no Ellen Vining. I did have an Ida Vining and that helped solve who was in the picture.

Ida, was born in 1866 to John and Josephine Vining.  John’s dates are 1833-1900 and Josephine was 1836-1870. After Josephine died, John Vining married Elleanor (Ellen) Babcock.

Ida married Abraham Frost. In 1886 they had a daughter Lula. Other children of Ida are Edwin 1888, Ethel 1891, Fred 1893.  This photo with only 4 names on the back looks like a good match for the Vinings and the Frost family.

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John and Josephine Vining’s daughter Ida Mary Vining and her children.

From the size of the smallest boy, who looks about five or so, I first guessed this photo might be 1898. The clothing seems appropriate for the Victorian era, turn-of-the-century with Fred wearing a Little Lord Fauntleroy collar and tie. Women’s clothing was slimming down without the hoop skirts of the 1860s or the huge puffed sleeves of the 1880s.

If the photo were from 1898, Lula would have been 12. She looks a little more mature than 12 so the picture might be 1900. At that point, Lula would have been 14, Edwin 12, Ethel 9, and Fred 7.

The children’s grandparents would have been 67 and 54 in 1900.  John Vining died later that year. Ellen lived until 1924 and died at the age of 77.


Ellen and her sister, Nancy Jane Babcock, married two brothers, John and Henry Francis Vining. The above photos show Ellen Babcock Vining by herself, then Ellen, Nancy Jane, Ezra, and Elias Babcock. Nancy Jane is my great-grandmother, so Ellen is my great-grandaunt.

The Importance of Labeling Photos – Vining Family


Here’s an old discussion from the MyFamily (Martin/McGhee) site. I think we solved this one.

Karen Kolavalli – Dec 11, 2011
Ginger, I had posted this on Facebook, but only had Ruth identified. You were asking about who the others were. Ruth Vining McGhee in white on the right. Also Mrs. Nancy J. Vining (Ruth’s mother). Not sure who the other woman is. Nancy Vining would have been in her late 60’s when this photo was taken–so she must be the seated woman. Ruth was the youngest of 12 children. Nancy also had 2 older children with her first husband.

Virginia Allain – Dec 11, 2011
I was guessing that the woman on the left was Ruth’s mother and the seated lady could be a grandmother. She looks like she could be 80 or so, but maybe it is Nancy Vining as in those days the late 60s would be fairly old.

Karen Kolavalli – Dec 11, 2011
Mom should be able to clear it up.

Karen Kolavalli – Dec 11, 2011
OK, I’ll speculate one more time and then quit! Ginger, I think you’re right that Ruth is standing next to her mother, Nancy J. Babcock Ashlock Vining. And I believe the seated lady is Ruth’s grandmother, Nancy Jane Wright Babcock.  (UPDATE: Nancy Jane Wright Babcock died in 1880 and this photo is circa 1918.)

Gail Martin – Dec 12, 2011
The other woman standing looks like Mother’s older sister Lucy that married Charles Bolte

Virginia Allain – Dec 12, 2011
OK – then the final line-up would be Lucy Bolte (Ruth’s older sister) on left, Ruth Vining McGhee on right, and their mother, Nancy J. Vining seated.

Lucy Vining Bolte, Mrs. Nancy J. Vining, and Ruth Vining  (photo from WWI sent to Nancy's son Albert Vining in France)

Lucy Vining Bolte, Mrs. Nancy J. Vining, and Ruth Vining (photo from WWI sent to Nancy’s son Albert Vining in France)

Here’s further discussion on this picture in September 2014:

Virginia Allain: Let’s go back one generation. This is CJ’s grandmother, Nancy Jane Babcock Vining in the front. Photo taken in Tyro, KS. She would be my great grandmother.

Cj Garriott: That’s my mother, of course, on the right, in the white dress.

Karen Kolavalli: On the left is Ruth’s sister Lucy Vining Bolte.

Karen Kolavalli: Did your Grandmother Nancy pass away before you were born, Cj Garriott?

Cj Garriott: I think so; Mother was 37 when I came along in 1934, and was youngest of all her siblings

Virginia Allain: Nancy had a hard time, I imagine raising all those children after her husband’s death. In one census, she is working as a laundress which probably means taking in laundry to wash at her home. Very hard work in those days without electricity and with water being carried in from a well in the yard.

Cj Garriott: Thinking about Nancy’s 13th being born June 10, 1897, and her husband died July 28, 1897. No doubt began the laundress work to raise her family!

UPDATE: After reading about the Vining cousins who had a laundry business in Neodesha, Kansas, I’m now wondering if Nancy worked there, rather than taking in washing at her home.